...ing -2003- Access

I swam up. Broke the surface. Gasped.

I remember the exact moment the drowning began. Not in water—in sound. My sister had left a CD on repeat in her boombox: a burned mix with "Hey Ya!" scratched over a Dashboard Confessional acoustic track. I was lying on the shag carpet, staring at a water stain on the ceiling that looked exactly like South America. And then the chorus skipped. Not a broken skip—a choosing skip. The same three words, over and over, for what felt like hours: “I’m not okay. I’m not okay. I’m not okay.”

“Yeah,” I lied. “Just something in my eye.” ...ing -2003-

But sometimes, late at night, I still feel it. The flicker. The skip. The world holding its breath in 2003, waiting to become the world we actually got.

That was the summer of the -ing. Every verb became a trap. Feeling. Failing. Forgetting. Faking. I’d write the word "living" on my hand in ballpoint pen, and by noon it would smear into a bruise. My mother said I was just moody. My father handed me the car keys and said, “Go drive somewhere. Get it out of your system.” But there was nowhere to go. Every road led back to the same cul-de-sac, the same lawn sprinklers clicking like a countdown clock. I swam up

“You okay?” Jenny asked. She was treading water two feet away, perfectly fine. The Frisbee arced overhead. Normal. The year 2003, normal.

That was the thing about being seventeen in 2003. We were the last year who remembered a before. Before the war in the news every night became just another commercial break. Before the internet learned to bite. We still had flip phones with antennas, and the only thing we feared was a busy signal. But that summer, something else was bleeding in. I remember the exact moment the drowning began

—ing.