I miss when “following” just meant the next page in a book, not a metric of your worth.
I remember the summer of 1997 vividly. You could be unreachable . If you drove from Boston to Maine, you simply vanished for three hours. No cell signal. No texting “I’m 5 minutes away.” You just... arrived. It felt like magic.
October 5, 2023
Following 1998, irony took over. Grunge died. Nu-metal and boy bands fought for the radio, and the cynicism of the late 90s gave way to the pre-traumatic stress of 9/11. We stopped dreaming about flying cars and started worrying about the backup of our hard drives.
I’ve been digitizing old home videos from 1997 lately. Grainy VHS footage of backyard barbecues, the static hiss of a CRT television in the background, and the sound of a rotary phone ringing. My nephew watched it over my shoulder and asked, “Why is everyone just... waiting ?” Following -1998-
The Last Polaroid Summer: Why 1997 Felt Like the End of an Era
Following 1998, the world didn't just change. It accelerated. I miss when “following” just meant the next
Following 1998, silence became suspicious. If you didn’t reply to an email within 24 hours, you were negligent. If you didn’t have a mobile phone, you were eccentric. We traded the inconvenience of absence for the anxiety of availability.
Here is the thing I miss most: The naivety. If you drove from Boston to Maine, you
I don’t want to go back permanently. I like having the sum of human knowledge in my palm. But I miss the silence. I miss the waiting.
Looking back at media produced before 1998, there is a relentless optimism. We thought Y2K was a technical glitch, not an existential dread. We thought the internet would be a global coffeehouse, not a global colosseum. We watched The Truman Show (1998) and thought, “Wow, what a creepy concept,” not “Oh, that’s just Tuesday on Instagram.”