Süleyman does not try to fix her with psychology. He fixes her with socks.
The production notes reveal a remarkable fact: The young actress, Kim Seol, was a non-professional child found in an orphanage in Turkey (where she had been adopted by a Turkish family). When director Can Ulkay asked her to cry, she couldn't. But when he asked her to think about the day she lost her real mother, the silence on set turned electric. That raw, un-acted pain is what breaks the audience. War films live and die by their third act. Ayla knows its weapon is not the bayonet, but the train station.
In the film’s most iconic scene, Süleyman cuts the toes out of his wool socks to fit her tiny feet. He shares his hardtack biscuit, breaking it piece by piece. He teaches her to salute the Turkish flag. Ayla- The Daughter of War
When the war ends, the UN forces pull out. Süleyman is ordered to leave. Ayla is to be sent to a local orphanage. The film spends twenty agonizing minutes on their last night together—Süleyman teaching her to say "Goodbye" in Turkish, Ayla refusing to let go of his leg.
While clearing a destroyed village, Süleyman hears a whimper. Buried under the frozen corpses of a Korean family is a five-year-old girl, malnourished, mute with trauma, and clutching her dead mother’s hand. Süleyman does not try to fix her with psychology
Ayla is not a war film. It is a love film. It will remind you that amidst the worst of humanity, a single act of kindness can echo across sixty years and two continents.
Streaming on: Netflix Warning: Keep tissues nearby. Multiple boxes. Post-Credits Note: The real Ayla (now known as Ayla Dilbirliği) still lives in Ankara, Turkey. She tends to the grave of Süleyman every week. When asked what he taught her, she smiles and says: "That family isn't blood. Family is whoever doesn't let go." When director Can Ulkay asked her to cry, she couldn't
(2017) is that film.
The unit adopts her. They name her Ayla , after the glow of the moonlight (literally "halo" or "moonlight") that lit the battlefield when they found her. For the next several months, this frozen hellscape becomes a bizarre, beautiful nursery. The heart of the feature is the silent dialogue between the stoic soldier and the traumatized child. Ayla refuses to speak. She bites, screams, and hoards food. She is a wild thing broken by war.